The Next Layer: What Makes Earned Performance PossibleLast month we talked about how Lionel Messi earned his performance as a master athlete. I wrote, “very little of what Messi does is beyond our reach.” What is hidden in that statement is the effort that comes before the tactics—the awareness, focus, and intention that make his tactics matter. It’s easy to stay where we are, maybe too easy. The status quo can feel comfortable enough that we assume all is well. But Messi recognized something important: maintaining performance is not passive. Coasting is not neutral. The same is true for us as we age. Keeping our game—our function, strength, mobility, and capacity—has a great deal to do with recognizing what is not immediately obvious. We live distracted lives. Passivity and inertia rarely announce themselves. They creep along quietly, and we surrender in millimeters. Small choices accumulate until, one day, they become direction. A pause can interrupt that process. Recognition brings our attention back to what matters. It returns us to a place where choice is possible. Instead of automatically thinking, this is simply part of aging, another question appears: What is still possible?Information alone is rarely enough. Knowing what to do does not guarantee that we will do it. Something has to turn knowledge into action. That brings us to agency—the recognition that we have influence over what happens next and that we can deliberately exercise that influence. Agency is our capacity to recognize, choose, and act in alignment with our biology and what matters to us. At first, agency may appear as an idea. Applied, it becomes a practice. And over time, we come to trust it through experience—because the body provides evidence. Here’s what that can look like: Recognize-->Choose-->Act-->Body responds-->Notice-->“I influenced that”-->Repeat You train. You recover better. You become stronger. You move with more confidence. You stay on the water longer, play with grandchildren longer, hike further, and get up off the floor easier. The body answers back. And now agency is no longer something someone told you about. You have evidence. Lionel Messi recognized what was required to continue playing world-class soccer. Our task is more personal. What will be required for your next adventure? And perhaps most important of all: What do you want to be doing at 80—and beyond? The TakeawayCoasting is not neutral. When we pause, recognize what matters, and act with intention, the body often answers back. That evidence helps us trust our agency—and keep building toward the life we still want to be living. Support and InspirationBooks: If my books give you something useful to think about, I'd be grateful if you'd leave an honest review on Amazon. Reviews help other readers decide whether my books are worth their time—and they help me understand what is connecting with readers. Website Visit Substack Join the conversation Facebook Connect Instagram Message YouTube Join Editorial NoteMy writing is researched, written, and fact checked by me, all of it. AI is used in three ways. After the original content is written by me, AI is used in editing for Chicago Manual of Style, to confirm my interpretations of clinical research and to summarize a takeaway. I do not assume AI is correct. The final edit is with me. I use technology to hold myself accountable. Affiliate Relationship & PartnersI currently do not have any affiliate connections. As expenses rise, that may change. I’ll let you know when that happens. Get in touch with your suggestions. |
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